It is hard to believe that the sun has set on 2015 and that 2016 is dawning. By looking at social media, paying attention to what loved ones say over dinner, or what strangers say at the gym, it seems that 2015 will end with a familiar custom: the New Year’s resolution. I hate New Year’s resolutions, and I do not make them.
New Year’s resolutions are, more often than not, promises to oneself; they are vows to change. Perhaps one wants to lose weight, get in shape, and quit smoking. One may also vow to achieve better organizational skills, travel to new places, or find a better job. On another level, people often make resolutions having to do with others. For example, one man may want to treat his wife better; another may decide he needs to spend less time in his doltish “man cave” and teach his son to shoot. All of these desires have tremendous merit. The problem isn’t that people can’t change; the problem is procrastination that leads to a true lack of resolve.
Change is a good thing, but as the old cliche goes, “talk is cheap.” Being truly resolved to achieve something is expensive. While some things, like quitting smoking or losing weight aren’t necessarily monetarily expensive, they will consume more of your time, and it may be mentally and physically taxing. In our society, people want immediate results. The obese woman wants to immediately (and effortlessly) lose weight; the man who smokes three packs of cigarettes per day wants to cease nicotine without the struggle of withdrawal; the dolt wants to teach his son to shoot his rifle, but he cannot bring himself to miss watching a baseball game. People want change to happen immediately but are not willing to act with haste. They make New Year’s resolutions as a way to procrastinate.
If you are resolved to lose weight, start immediately.
If you are resolved to quit smoking, start quitting immediately.
If you resolved to treat your spouse (or any other person) better, start immediately.
If you are resolved to achieve better organizational skills, start immediately.
If you are resolved to do anything else, stop putting it off until tomorrow!
I don’t give this advice because I am a perfect man. I far from being perfect, but I’m not going to lie to myself and others. If I am resolute in my desire to do something, I will immediately act. The rest is just talk.
May your 2016 be filled with peace, prosperity, and liberty.
Your Obedient Servant,
Ichabod Ω